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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 21st, 2025 08:30 pm)
Thanksgiving triplog #1
SFO airport · Fri, 12 Nov 2025. 8:30pm.

Tonight we're headed east for Thanksgiving; to Maryland, Virginia, and Pennsylvania to visit friends and relatives over the coming week. We're at SFO already, awaiting our 9:25pm departure to BWI. Yes, it's a red-eye... and a red-eye was actually our first choice. Partly that's because when flying west to east it's a matter of losing most of a day traveling or having a rough night getting little sleep on a red-eye. We chose losing a night over losing a day. And partly it's because this flight is on Southwest, where I have the Companion Pass that makes flying together cheaper.

And yes, Southwest flies red-eyes now! They started that in the last year or two. It took decades because they literally had to upgrade all their IT to be able to handle the clocks flipping from 23:59 to 00:00 in the middle of a flight. It's like the Y2K problem but it's the D2 (Day 2) problem. 🤣 Oh, but despite upgrading their IT from the 1980s to maybe the 1990s they've still got...

I'll book this Southwest flight... and it's delayed

...The problem of delays snowballing across the day because they continue to plan their schedules hopelessly optimistically like the past 20 years of commercial aviation in the US haven't actually happened.

Fortunately it's just a small delay (so far) and we really don't care this trip. We purposefully booked a nonstop, even as a red-eye, to avoid problems with missing a connection due to delays. And with this red-eye we're scheduled to land at 5:30am. If the flight were even 2 hours late we wouldn't care— except for how long we'd be sitting, bored, in the gate area struggling not to fall asleep before the boarding call!

Well, one thing that worked well this evening was a scheduled ride with Uber. I've been leery of using scheduled rides since a colleague of mine booked one for an early morning airport departure and the driver was late then canceled. He barely made it to the airport on time. But this time the driver was actually early and waited patiently outside.

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([personal profile] vvalkyri Nov. 21st, 2025 12:39 pm)
I keep meaning to write about a play I went to last Saturday. November 4. It's about the assassination of Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin by Settler Yigal Amir 30 years ago, and it's a musical. It's not a particularly good musical but it is a very worthwhile production, and I spent at least the last 10 minutes in tears.

Because Yigal Amir's one action, thinking he was a hero... is the turn point for everything since, and honestly including our current national nightmare and how increasingly unsafe it is for Jews around the world *and here.* One person did so much damage.

There's showtimes through December 7th. Thursday through Sunday. Different talks after each; ours was Combatants For Peace. It's at a church on 16th near U and only like $25, and it is worth going to.

I should sort of scan the program but I also need to start getting moving towards Pittsburgh.

Sometime other than now, I might write about yesterday's blood libel at Union Station, and how that means I'm leaving earlier for Pitt Stop.

What also sucks is there's chats I'd love to mention this in but it would likely result in accusations of WrongThink.

https://www.voicesfestivalproductions.com/nov4-themusical
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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 19th, 2025 08:54 pm)
It's been almost 5 weeks since Hawk's foot surgery. She had a check-up with a doctor today. How are things going? Mostly better. A few points:

  • She's still seeing a "substitute" doctor, not the one who did the surgery. The doctor was even careful to point out when she was advising Hawk today, "Well, you're not my patient, but...." The reason for the substitution is Hawk's preferred doctor, the orthopedic specialist she's seen many times over the past 20-ish years and trusts thoroughly, is out with an arm injury right now. That said, she trusts this new doctor pretty well. It's just off-putting (to me) that the doctor who's currently caring for her puts distance between herself and Hawk with that "You're not my patient, but..." refrain when Hawk asks her for guidance.

  • The quibble about "You're not my patient, but..." aside, this doctor is way better than the previous substitute Hawk saw, who was dismissive— to the point of mocking— of her complaints of post-surgical pain and arguably removed her stitches a week too soon, which arguably resulted in an infection at the surgical site, which slowed her healing by at least a week and potentially could have been much worse.

  • Yelp ApprovedHawk made a complaint about that bad doctor to the clinic's admin and also posted a negative review on Yelp. By the next morning the clinic's social media team had responded to her, apologizing for the problem. The admin took a week to respond... and even then only with a brief, form-letter acknowledgement of receiving a complaint. That's a sad illustration of the state of affairs in American medicine.

  • The skin healing over the surgical incision is closed up now, and signs of infection are mostly gone. Hawk's pain levels have decreased— though pain is far from gone.

  • The doctor recommended a lighter wrapping of bandages around the surgical area and showed Hawk the technique after undoing the previous, thicker wrapping and cleaning underneath. The lighter wrapping is easier to maintain and right away lowered Hawk's pain level slightly. We figure it might have been that the thicker bandaging was creating pressure on sensitive nerves.

  • Hawk continues to wear a plastic "boot" around her foot. She's now had it for almost 3 weeks. Her mobility continues to improve every week. I remember the first day she wore the boot she got tired out walking less than 100 yards. Now she can walk a mile or more in a day... though it tires her out to the point of napping for a few hours afterward.


Hawk's next check-up is in 2 weeks. At that point the doctor might recommend replacing the boot, which has a rigid plastic frame that goes almost up to the knee, with a surgical shoe.
One of my credit cards has just reached its anniversary, so it's time to check the score on how well I've done with it. This one's the Chase United Business Mileage Plus card, and I've owned it for one year— which means the tally of benefits from the past year should be pretty good, considering the lucrative sign-up bonus.

Now, you might be thinking, "Wait, didn't you used to have two United cards— and canceled both of them?" The answer is Yes and Yes. 😅 In 2022 I opened both personal and business cards with United/Chase and then closed both of them in 2023. But in 2024 and this year I opened both kinds of cards again. Yup, this is the credit card churning that my topic What's in YOUR wallet? is all about.

The United MileagePlus Business Card by Chase (Nov 2025)I opened this card last year under a fairly typical (for this card) offer of 75,000 bonus UA miles after $5,000 of spend in the first 3 months. I hit the spending target easily in the first two months then... didn't quite toss this card in the proverbial sock drawer for the remainder of the year. Instead I kept using it occasionally, taking advantage of various promotions it offered. At the end of 12 months I've charged a total of $6,700 on the card and earned 85,100 points.

Miles & More

At my current valuation of 1.1 cents per point (cpp) for UA miles, my haul of 85,100 miles is worth $936. The annual fee (AF) of $99 was waived the first year so I won't subtract that, but I will subtract the opportunity cost of not charging that $6,700 of spend to one of my 2% cash-back cards. This $134 is the cost of earning these miles. It brings the net win down to a still very respectable $802.

But wait, there's more.

More in this case takes the form of various promotions Chase and United offered on the card. I put them into three groups:

  • The card offered a $100 statement credit after charging 7 purchases of at least $100 at United. This was likely meant to encourage and reward people who regularly buy flights but I found I could game the system by purchasing United TravelBank credits of $100 each in 7 separate transactions. These triggered the reward— which was cash back— plus I had $700 of credits at United that wouldn't expire for 10 years.

    • Partway through my membership year United/Chase changed the above benefit from a $100 statement credit to a bonus of $125 in United TravelBank funds. Changing it from a cash back bonus to a store credit bonus makes it less useful, generally speaking; and especially because the bonus credit expires in just 12 months. But the cool thing was Chase/United double-dipped me. They gave me both the original bonus and the new one for the same set of purchases I made. And I already spent the $125 voucher. So this year the 12 month expiry was not a problem.


  • Along with revamping the purchase credit back in the April/May timeframe, United/Chase added a new benefit to the card: $8/month credit on ride-share purchases of at least $20, with a slightly larger credit of $12 in December. If you max out this credit across the year it's worth $100. I hit it for $48 in the months I had access to it.

  • Chase offers a catalog of merchant specific bonuses, things like "5% back at ABC" or "$5 off one purchase of $25 or more at XYZ". Most of these are at merchants I don't care about, but over the past year there have been at least half a dozen I found worthwhile. I've redeemed cash-back offers worth $28.


There are other categories of credits Chase/United offer on this card but the remainder aren't worth it to me. (For example, there's $25 in United credit on two car rentals with Avis/Budget booked through United, but the rates at United are more expensive than I can get elsewhere with the same car providers.) With the three above, including the one-time double-dip, I nabbed $301 in cash and credits this year.

A Good Haul, But Do I Renew?

Putting the net value of the miles and bonuses together, I've made this card worth just over $1,100 in its first year. That's a solid score. But the question at hand now is Do I renew? It's a tough question because after the first year there's no big pile of miles from a sign-up bonus... oh, and the $99 AF kicks in.

I'm thinking I will renew this card for a second year. The ride-sharing credits, if I can max them out, basically paying back the AF. If I do the 7x$100 purchases again I'll get another $125 credit... though that will be in the form of store credit with United, not cash-back on the credit card. I'll have to decide if I expect to spend that voucher before it expires after 12 months from issue. (The answer is most likely "Yes" but I want to wait until I have more visibility before buying.) Finally, I'll earn a 5,000 mile bonus, worth $55, by having this card together with the United Quest card I opened a few months ago. That bonus will be paid a month or two after the renewal.

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 16th, 2025 02:45 pm)
Oops, I did it again. I went wine shopping again. Yes, I just went wine shopping yesterday— and bought 6 bottles of wine. That wasn't bad as it brought my collection to just 51 bottles, a completely reasonable number compared to what I owned in years past.  But today I went wine shopping again— and bought another 6 bottles. 😅

Wine shopping... for the second time in two days (Nov 2025)

The impetus for going shopping again and buying wine again was that I still had my "Buy 6, get 20% off" coupon. It was supposed to be a single use coupon, but the Total Wine store I shopped at yesterday screwed it up. They didn't apply the coupon correctly. And since they gave me a runaround when I tried to use the coupon— and another runarounds when I politely asked them to correct their mistake— I decided, screw 'em I'll use it again. Yup, it's revenge shopping! 🤣

How did I pick 6 more wines today when I picked 6 just yesterday? I mean, it's not really exciting to think, "Oh, look, it's my 7th through 12th favorite wines!" Nor is it fulfilling to think, "Oh, boy, another copy of favorites #1-6!" I made today's shopping different by taking a different approach to my selections.

Yesterday I bought 6 wines that a) were brands I enjoyed before and wanted to add back to my collection or b) filled gaps in my collection where a variety, like zinfandel, was running low.

Today I took the approach of picking wines from my list of "Hmm, I'd like to try that sometime." I think of it as having a wine tasting at home. And some of those wines, like the two Pinot Noirs on the left have been on that list for several years! I guess I was always waiting for them to go on sale or something. And, well, today's revenge sale was the buying signal I needed.

Today I went wine shopping. I bought 6 bottles because the store had a buy-6-get-20%-off sale going. As I slotted those bottles away into my shelf at home today I counted the total: I have 51 bottles of wine.

51 bottles is a good thing. ...Not because it's a lot but because it's a little! Years ago I had 100+ bottles in my collection, a situation I've referred to, jokingly, since then as "my drinking problem". The joke is that my problem is I buy wine faster than I drink it! (One of my friends pithily observed, "Really what you have is a shopping problem.")

Even with buying 6 bottles because there was a sale today— which comes after buying 3 last weekend when there was a different sale 😅— the new tally of 51 in my wine collection is actually less than earlier this year. In March I had 55... and I considered even that a good thing. I'm keeping my drinking shopping problem under control.

Back in March I also wrote about my hard liquor collection being a bit out of control. I've been working to tame it. Since then I've barely bought anything new, and I've been making a point of finishing off bottles that are close to empty. ...Not by saying, "Eh, only 4 shots left, bottoms up!" but by choosing, when I feel like enjoying a drink, liquor that's almost gone. I mean, why keep around lots of bottles with only a few shots left when I already have too many different bottles. I've knocked out two (mostly empty) bottles in the past month this way.

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 14th, 2025 11:57 am)
Texas Trip log #7
Back home · Thu, 13 Nov 2025. 9pm.

I'm back home now after a two-day trip to Austin, Texas. My previous blog, written at Austin's airport, may look like it's from just 4 hours ago, but it's from 6 hours ago because of the time change. Yeah, it was a long day already when I left. Now it's longer. What's happened since then? Well....

I'll book this Southwest flight... and it's delayed

Yup, my flight was delayed. We boarded 10 minutes late, then it slipped to 20-25 minutes late by the time we actually departed.

On the plus side, Hawk's personal schedule for the day was running late, too, so she offered to pick me up at the airport in San Jose and go out to dinner together. The flight landed at 7:30, and I was in our car headed to dinner by 7:42.

On the flight I wasn't sure I'd have enough energy for dinner. It was late, it was a long day, and I thought I might just want to go home to bed. But being able to stand up and walk, breathe non-recycled air, and seeing Hawk again help perk me up.

As we drove off from the airport we discussed where to go for dinner. Hawk suggested Giovanni's, a favorite local pizza place. I countered with "How about something bland?" since I felt I'd had too much rich food the past few days. Then as we talked through it I realized that "bland" would be something like Denny's (ugh; already had it this year) I decided a pizza would be bland enough for me. 🤣

Now we're back home. I've unpacked my suitcase and I'm winding down for the evening. Actually I'm not just winding down I'm shutting down. I don't have mental bandwidth for anything else tonight. And as I look at what is on my calendar for tomorrow I see it's going to be an absolutely packed day, starting with a meeting at 7am.  It's just as well my meeting in San Antonio went remote (instead of in-person) and I had deftly booked alternate plans to fly home tonight. Well, at least by going to bed now it shouldn't hurt so much when I have to get up at 6:15am and start another full day.

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 13th, 2025 09:22 pm)
Texas Trip log #6
AUS Airport · Thu, 13 Nov 2025. 4:45pm.

It has been a busy day for me with meetings galore in Austin.

My day started with a morning alarm at 6:15. I had to get ready for the day, pack my suitcase, and be downstairs for an informal meeting at 7:30am. Luckily it was informal as I fell behind schedule— I got sucked into reading too many work emails early this morning— as I didn't get downstairs until 7:40.

Then there was an 8:30 meeting at a prospective customer's office. We were annoyingly late for that, too. When we started leaving the hotel at 7:50, maps said we'd be there by 8:20. By 7:05, as we sat in traffic, our arrival time had slipped out to 8:25, then 8:30, then 8:40. Fortunately it all worked out as it was a very productive meeting. And the customer was understanding of our tardiness as some of them arrived late because of the same bad traffic (there was an accident in a construction zone).

Later in the morning I took a meeting from a picnic table on the edge of a parking lot outside a beer bar.As I've remarked many times, working remotely isn't just "Work From Home", it's work from anywhere you can set out a computer and get a network signal!

After that I took a meeting inside the bar. It was with a customer who'd picked the bar. Though oddly I was the only one (of the six of us total) who drank beer. I drank sparingly. Then after the customer left and it was just me and my sales colleague, I hit the bottle harder. 🤣

From lunch I headed over to the airport with a stop back at the hotel to drop off my colleague and pick up my suitcase. Here at AUS I cleared security surprisingly fast considering how busy the airport is. I bought a soda as a pretext for sitting at a table in one of the food court areas then conducted two more meetings sitting in the airport food court.

Now it's rolling up on 5pm and I consider myself done for the day. I've been working since before 6am, and I've still got at least 4 more hours to go before I get home tonight.

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 13th, 2025 02:53 pm)
Texas Trip log #5
Residence Inn · Thu, 13 Nov 2025. 7am.

Last night could have been an early evening. It could have been, but it wasn't.

I went out with my sales colleague to treat a prospective customer to dinner. They picked the restaurant, an Italian joint in the Domain. "I just love uniquely styled restaurants such as this," someone in the group gushed. "It's owned by Cheesecake Factory," I pointed out. At least the food was better than Cheesecake Factory. And the menu was just 2 pages, not 27.

I thought that dinner, with copious drinking, was going to be why it was a late night. Instead, both the gents we were entertaining wanted to get back to their families. Yay, engaged dads! They big us goodnight by 8. My sales colleague suggested we get a few more drinks. Mindful of the fact I had my morning alarm set for 6:15 already I suggested we limit it to just one. I was back in my room by 9.

Alas it was just staying up too late that was my excuse for staying up too late. I got involved in watching videos on YouTube and couldn't settle down to sleep until after midnight.

Morning came early today. At 6:15 I was up before dawn— even with the recent switch off of Daylight Saving Time. I've spent 30 minutes catching up on yesterday's unread emails while nibbling on breakfast in my room. Now it's time to shower, pack, and head downstairs to meet my sales colleague to prep for today's in-person meetings.
Texas Trip log #4
Residence Inn · Wed, 12 Nov 2025. 5:10pm.

I've been in Austin all day, since late last night actually, and I'm not yet to the point where it even matters that I'm here in Austin. I spend the day today working remotely from my hotel room.

Working remotely in Austin (Nov 2025)

Yup, that desk by the window is where I've put in about 7 hours so far, including 4 customer-facing meetings.

Thankfully I haven't just been sitting here all day. I did go out for lunch. But after that it was back to work.

Now it's just after 5pm and I'm feeling cooked. That wouldn't be a problem if it were quitting time... but I've got a customer dinner to go to next! I'll need to wake up and be "on" for the next couple hours.

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 12th, 2025 07:36 am)
Texas Trip log #3
Residence Inn · Wed, 12 Nov 2025. 12:05am.

My Southwest Airlines flight to Austin not only left on time this evening, it arrived early. "Well, we got you to Texas 15 minutes early," the purser quipped over the speakers. "When we're late next time we'll call it even." See, even Southwest employees know their airline has a reputation for arriving late. 🤣

It's not as simple as, "We arrived early, woohoo!" though. The system is not set up to handle flights arriving early. As is frequently the case with an early arrival, our flight had to sit on the tarmac waiting for our gate to open up. You see, in the name of efficiency the airline figures out how to use the fewest gates possible, which generally means a gate doesn't open up until 2 minutes before your flight is supposed to land. So all of our 15 minutes of earliness was consumed just sitting there, 300 feet short of the gate.

Since I'd canceled my car reservation when my travel plans changed at 41,000' I thought I'd save a bit of time getting to the hotel by hopping in an Uber instead of walking all the way to the car rental depot. Oops, no, the designated spot for ride-share pickups is in the same far parking structure as the rental cars.

Well, one advantage of taking an Uber remained not having to drive. It was going on midnight local time as we whisked across uncrowded highways around Austin. Though it was only 10:45pm for me, on California time, it was still late by my usual schedule. I thought I might nap a bit on the flight. Strangely, I didn't. I was wide awake the whole dang time. And now I was struggling not to nod off.

The Residence Inn was quiet when I arrived. Despite rates being high when I booked the hotel seem to have low occupancy. I checked in, got my keys, and went upstairs to my room. To my chagrin I found that I was in an "armpit" room— wedged on an inside corner of the building, where there was no window near the bed and only a small window near the desk that looked straight into a hallway window 5' away. It's like they assigned me the worst room in the hotel. So much for Lifetime Titanium status. Not only don't I get an upgrade, even a trivial one, I pretty much get a downgrade. And I'm paying $200++ a night for this!

I called down to the front desk to complain about the room with its missing window. "Do you have anything better you can put me in?" The desk agent tap-tapped on his computer and asked me to meet him at the elevator for new keys. "It's a one-bedroom suite," he informed me. Well, it's the same size as the other room, just there's a wall in the middle. 🙄 But at least it has 2 windows... which it turns out will be really important tomorrow when I'm trying to get work done, because the lighting in here sucks!

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 11th, 2025 10:27 pm)
Texas Trip log #2
41,000' over Nevada · Tue, 11 Nov 2025. 7pm.

I'm not even halfway to Texas yet and already my plans for the rest of the week have changed. The customer I intended to visit in San Antonio on Friday couldn't get all of their people together on the same day. Instead we'll meet with them virtually, and probably next week. That means I should go home Thursday instead of Friday, and I don't need a rental car to drive to San Antonio.

Unfortunately this is the way enterprise selling is in 2025. Face-to-face meetings are rare anymore. Scheduling them with customers and prospects is like pulling teeth, and even once they agree to a meeting date they often renege on it. It's like nobody can commit anymore.

Fortunately I know it's 2025, not 1995 unlike a certain senior politician who seems to think "Bring back Johnny Carson [to host the Tonight Show]" is a reasonable demand. (Johnny Carson stepped down from hosting that show in 1992 and retired to private life. He died in 2005.) I anticipated that the customer in San Antonio had at least a 50/50 chance of flaking on us, so I held onto two homeward flight reservations: one on Thursday and one on Friday. I simply canceled the one on Friday. And, as I got the news of them flaking out just before boarding the flight, I was able to do that from my phone while sitting in my seat while the aircraft was still parked at the gate.

Cancelling my rental car reservation took a bit longer. I waited until I could take out my laptop computer for that. Though by the time we were 41,000' feet above Nevada I couldn't get my computer to connect to Southwest's flaky wifi. So I went through "Sorry, that username or password couldn't be found" purgatory on my mobile phone trying to pull up the booking site to cancel the car.

Texas Trip log #1
SJC Airport · Tue, 11 Nov 2025. 5pm.

I'm headed out on a business trip this evening. I'm flaying to Austin, TX where I'll get in late tonight— or possibly early tomorrow morning, given how air travel has been scrambled the past week or two with staffing chaos at the FAA during the government shutdown. At least my flight is slated to leave on time.

This is my first trip in a while. I did no travel the whole month of October. 😨 My last trip before that was a leisure trip to Phoenix in late September. My last business trip was a brief one to Los Angeles 8 weeks ago.

I've got a packed schedule in Texas on this trip. Wednesday I've got meetings all day. I'll work from the hotel. You may think, "So why not travel tomorrow, then?" Well, I'm taking a prospective customer to dinner Wednesday evening, and I don't want to have to reschedule all my Wednesday meetings to travel for it. So I'm flying tonight.

After working in the hotel Wednesday and doing a client dinner Wednesday evening, I'll meet a couple of clients in their offices around Austin on Thursday. When I'm done with those meetings I'll drive down to San Antonio Thursday afternoon/evening. Friday morning I'll meet a client in San Antonio, then I'll drive back up to Austin to fly home Friday evening.

Again you might ask, "Why not fly home from San Antonio?" The main reason is I can't get a nonstop flight from there back to SJC. Meanwhile there are multiple nonstops throughout the day from Austin. Purely on a door-to-door time basis, driving to Austin and flying from there is about equal to flying from San Antonio. The tiebreaker is the reduced risk of flying nonstop. Especially with so many flight delays and cancellations recently, I preferred to book the nonstop versus the connecting route. The nonstop flight might be delayed, but the worst that will happen is I get home late. If my first of two connecting flights is delayed badly, I could be stuck overnight in a connecting city like Phoenix or Las Vegas.

UpdatePlans change just as I'm boarding!

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([personal profile] canyonwalker Nov. 11th, 2025 09:25 am)
A week ago I got a summons for jury duty. It was for the week of Thanksgiving. I already have travel plans for the week so I requested a postponement. I got my new notice the other day. It's for... the week of New Year.

I was like, "Are you freaking kidding me?" They move me from the week of one major US holiday when a lot of people travel to the week of another major US holiday when a lot of people travel. Hawk and I already had penciled-in travel plans around New Year. I guess we'll have to cancel those as I don't think I can get a second postponement on jury duty.


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It was a pleasant weekend... which I am only writing about just now, at 8pm on Monday evening, because today has been such a whirlwind of starting a new workweek that a blog I thought I might write at 8am I couldn't even start until now. 😰 But this young week's busy-ness is a topic for another day. Right now I just want to wind down a recount a quietly enjoyable weekend.

Hawk and I had no big plans this weekend. That's partly a consequence of her having limited mobility as she works to recover from foot surgery 3 weeks earlier. She tries to push her boundaries every day. Though every day those boundaries reassert themselves.by pushing back. After a few hours out she needs to nap for a few hours at home.

Saturday we went out for lunch together then visited a friend who was hosting a games day at his house. We gamed until about dinner time, playing a few different games each. [personal profile] some_other_dave was there— it's like he'd come from Hawaii just to play games every day— as was a newcomer to our group. "Ronald" was conspicuously younger than everyone else, an obvious and lone younger Millennial among a crowd of Gen Xers through young Boomers. It reminded me to ponder why our group is so sorted by age when we don't take any action or have any reason to filter people by age. (Other than "Are you mature enough to play a serious or semi-serious tabletop game?" Some parents bring their older teen children, for example.)

Sunday we went out together again. Again we started with lunch out. After that we went shopping. I made a quick run at Total Wine for a few more bottles of wines I'd really enjoyed recently. Then Hawk did a bit of clothes shopping at TJ Maxx for dresses or large skirts that fit with her surgical boot. Finally we shopped at Costco, which had been the impetus for the whole trip. And the specific impetus at Costco was a Lego set... a Lego set of 6 gems on a display stand! I bought it for Hawk as an early Hanukkah gift.

Just the walking around at Costco pushed Hawk's boundaries— according to her step counter it's easy to walk a mile in that store— but she still had energy to suggest we invite friends over to play cards on Sunday evening. We discussed going out for dinner together but then Hawk got the idea to volunteer me to cook dinner for everyone instead. 😅 I don't really mind; I moderately enjoy cooking and hosting, and we had the makings on hand, having just shopped at Costco.

Cards with friends was fun. Hawk's long day caught up with her, though, and she was fading badly after two matches of Spades. She retired upstairs as I wound things down with our friends Jeremy and Aliza. And by "wound down" I mean Jeremy and I split another round of beer before calling it a night.


Late last week Hawk completed three weeks of recovery since her foot surgery on Oct 17. It has been a mixture of good news and bad. After she got the cast removed and fitted with a boot instead a week and a half ago she enjoyed a big surge in mobility. She went from leaving the house only twice in two weeks— and one of those times was to go to her followup appointment— to joining me in going out for a meal or a small shopping errand several times the next week. That was the good news.

The bad news was that her foot started hurting more. Was it just that she'd walked on it too much? The burning sensation of pain, versus a dull aching feeling, suggested otherwise. But either way she called for an urgent appointment at the clinic to have a doctor check it out... but NOT doctor #2 who'd removed the stitches on the previous visit, as he'd been rude and skeptical when she explained her medical history. (Male readers may not understand this, but doctors not believing what women patients tell them is an endemic problem in medicine. Ask any woman who's ever had a serious health problem.)

The 3rd doctor, one she found much more trustworthy, cleaned her wound and quietly implied that doctor #2 removed the stitches a week too soon. Then her original doctor reviewed the 3rd doctor's notes and photographs and quietly implied that the incision area is actually infected. Now she's on antibiotics, which are helping ameliorate the pain. Partly.

Hawk continues to play through the pain. We went out together both days this weekend. Saturday we dined out for lunch then visited friends for games. Today we grabbed lunch out, then did a bit of shopping, then had friends over for dinner and games at our house in the evening. Toward the end of each day, though, she needed to call it quits after several hours, take pain pills, and lay down with her foot elevated. But Hawk's determined not to let the injury, or the recovery, turn her into a perch potato.

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